How to Feel Less Awkward in Photos
A Sacramento Photographer’s Take on Posing with Confidence
The first time I had professional photos taken—outside of stiff school portraits—was on my wedding day. We kept things simple: a quiet ceremony in the International World Peace Rose Garden at the California State Capitol in Sacramento, surrounded by just a few close family members. These days, I suppose you'd call it a microwedding.
What I wanted most was something beautiful to remember it by. And I got that. I treasure my wedding photos. But if I’m honest, I also remember how uncomfortable I felt being in front of the camera.
I didn’t know how to hold myself. I felt unsure, a little awkward, and not entirely at ease. Our photographer was talented, but I didn’t feel connected to them. I wish I’d had the chance to build that comfort first—because being photographed by someone who feels like a stranger can leave you feeling more self-conscious than seen.
Natural Photos Start with Feeling Comfortable
Now that I’m behind the camera as a Sacramento portrait photographer, that experience stays with me. It’s shaped how I approach every session—especially for people who say they’re “awkward in photos” or “never know what to do with their hands.”
The truth is: you don’t have to know. You don’t need to walk in with poses planned or a Pinterest board memorized. My job is to help you feel grounded, relaxed, and fully yourself—so the photos reflect who you are, not just how you look.
Gentle Posing Tips (for People Who Don’t Like Posing)
Whether you're booking a family photo session, maternity shoot, or couples portraits, these small shifts can make a big difference:
1. Movement is your friend.
We’ll walk, shift weight, adjust posture—anything that keeps your body from locking into a pose. The best photos often come in between the “poses.”
2. Focus on connection, not the camera.
Instead of thinking “How do I look?” try thinking “Who am I here with?” or “What does this moment feel like?” That shift changes everything.
3. Don’t overthink your hands.
If you're unsure what to do with them, I’ll guide you—resting on a shoulder, brushing hair back, holding someone’s hand. What feels natural looks natural.
Working with a Photographer Who Gets It
If you’ve ever worried you’re not “photogenic,” you’re not alone. Most of the people I photograph come in with that same hesitation. And every time, we find a rhythm together.
My approach is soft, steady, and personal. No forced smiles, no pressure to perform—just thoughtful direction, real connection, and photos that feel like you.
Ready to Book a Session in Sacramento?
If you're thinking about a photo session but feeling nervous about how you’ll look or how you’ll pose, I hope this helped ease your mind a little.
You don’t have to show up perfect—you just have to show up.
Let’s make something beautiful together. Contact me to start planning.
